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爱情语录

爱情是什么？
爱情究竟是什么有人说那是一种很奇妙的感觉。那又有多奇妙呢？嗯。。。这只有亲身经历过的人才会知道爱情的奇妙咯！那，要怎样才会遇上爱情呢？爱情需要天时，地利，还有人和。何谓天时，地利，人和?天时既是两个人在适当的时间遇上；地利则是指两人相遇的环境/地点；人和当然是两个对的人咯！相信大家都听说过以下这段话吧！“在对的时间遇上错的人是一声叹息；再错的时间遇上对的人是一种遗憾; 在对的时间遇上对的人则是一生的幸福。”

真爱
有人说：人的一生都在寻觅属于自己的真爱。在着寻寻觅觅的途中，我们会遇上四个人：第一个是自己；第二个是你最爱的人；第三个是最爱你的人；第四个是共度一生的人。当你遇到你最爱的人时，你才会体会到爱的感觉；只有在你了解被爱的感觉后，你才会发现最爱你的人；当你经历过爱与被爱，学会了怎样去爱一个人，你才会知道什么事你所需要的，才会找到最适合你的人，一个可以和你共度一生的人。可悲的是，在现实生活中，这三个人通常不是同一个人。你最爱的，往往是以分手收场；最爱你的，往往不是你的最爱；而和你共度一生的，既不是你的最爱，也不是最爱你的那个，只是一个在适当的时候出现的人。你呢？找到了第几个？你又是别人生命中的第几个人呢？茫茫人海中，你遇见了谁？谁又遇见了你？

分手的理由
你曾经和恋人分手过吗？分手的时候，你有没有问过对方为什么要提出分手呢？有或者提出分手的人是你，那对方是否问过你分手的理由呢？最普通的理由有：“对不起，我爱上另一个人了。”，“我们之间性格不合，没办法继续相处。”，“我们都太过了解对方了，大家就像亲人。”，“我想我没办法给你幸福，将来你一定会遇到一个更好的人。”。。。甚至，有一些人连一声抱歉都不说就溜得无影无踪了。可是，再多的理由都只是一个不爱了的借口。那不给理由的呢？是连借口都懒得去想呢？还是？曾经看过一篇文章，重点是说分手时，不要问对方分手的理由。至于，为什么呢？我就不记得了。当初分手时，我也曾经问过他分手的理由。他给不到我一个理由。分手后，我仍然想知道我们分手的理由。后来，他给了我一个答案：“我暂时不想谈恋爱，我想先打好事业基础。”哈哈！多么可笑的一个理由。既然他心里这么想，当初为什么回来时要找我？我一直对这个理由耿耿于怀。或许，当初我就不应该问。

手放
开其实，没有人是故意要变心的。他爱你的时候，是全心全意地爱你；但，当他不爱你的时候，也是真的不爱你了。当一个已经不爱你的人要离开时，请问问自己是否还爱着他/她。如果你也不爱她/他了，千万别为了可怜的自尊而不肯离开，或心有不甘浪费了那么多的青春而不肯放手。如果你还爱她/他，你应该希望他过地幸福快乐吧!那你就不应该阻止他和心爱的人在一起，如果你阻止他寻找属于自己的幸福，那就表示你已经不爱她/他了。既然这样，你又有什么资格责怪她/他变心呢？请记得，爱情不是占有。爱个人并不一定要拥有她/他。如果你无法给与她/他想要的幸福，何尝不放手让她/他去寻找属于她/他的幸福呢？勉强在一起，只会让两个人更痛苦。有时候，放手也会是一种幸福。真心爱一个人，只要她/他幸福快乐就好了！

承诺
你相信承诺吗？
现在的我已不再相信承诺。我害怕给予承诺，也害怕接受承诺。可是，我内心深处，仍然期待承诺。很矛盾吧？在一段感情開始的时候，许多人都会想尽办法把一个人留在身边。有人会想用承诺去套牢一个人；有人会想用行动去感动一个人；也有人会想用甜言蜜語去迷惑一个人。。。我們会发现，年纪越轻，许下承诺的越多。比如：我会爱你到永远,我永远都不会变心。。。但是，当年紀渐渐大了的时候，我们却也渐渐害怕给承诺。因为经历过太多的不愉快，受过太多的伤害，所以我们害怕给承诺，也怕接受承诺。虽然如此，心里对它却还有那一丝丝的期待。。。很多人在谈情说爱的时候总喜欢叫对方发誓或许下承诺。什为什么要对方发誓呢？就是因为我们不相信对方。我们根本不相信情人﹐而这些山盟海誓又很不切实际。海枯石烂﹐地老天荒﹐都不能改变我对你的爱。。。明知道海不会枯﹐石不会烂﹐地不会老﹐天不会荒﹔就算会﹐也活不到那个时候。究竟什么是承诺呢？承诺其实是指答应要做到的事。既然承诺了，就应该去做。可是，在现今的爱情里，承诺成了随口说说的甜言蜜语。既然是随口说说的，那么它的可信度当然也不高咯！可是，偏偏那么多的人选择相信承诺，最后却把自己的心伤得那么深。。。所以请记住：在现今的爱情里，“不可能实现的诺言最是美丽动人”。在爱情里﹐总是说的是一套，做的又是另外一套。

别让深爱你的人受伤

男人哭了，是因为他真的爱了；女人哭了,是因为她真的放弃了。 决定放弃你的那一刻我哭了，我的眼泪证明了我是真的很爱你。 如果真诚是一种伤害，我选择谎言；如果谎言是一种伤害，我选则沉默；如果沉默是一种伤害，我选择离开。 如果失去是苦,你怕不怕付出 ,如果迷乱是苦, 你会不会选择结束 ,如果追求是苦 ,你会不会选择执迷不悟 ,如果分离是苦 ,你要向谁倾诉， 好多事情都是后来才看清楚，好多事情当时一 点也不觉得苦，然而我已经找不到来时的路 。 有一种爱,明明是深爱,却说不出来.有一种爱,明明想放弃,却无法放弃.有一种爱,明知是煎熬,却又躱不开.有一种爱,明知无前路.心却早已收不回来. 什么是勇气？是哭着要你爱我，还是哭着让你离开。 为什么我们总是不懂得珍惜眼前人？在未可预知的重逢里，我们以为总会重逢，总会有缘再会，总以为有机会说一声对不起，却从没想过每一次挥手道别，都可能是诀别，每一声叹息，都可能是人间最后的一声叹息。 一个女子的寂寞就是这样的不堪一击。如果一个男人对我伸出手，如果他的手指是热的。他是谁对我其实已经并不重要。 也许爱情只是因为寂寞，需要找一个人来爱，即使没有任何结局。 伤口是别人给与的耻辱，自己坚持的幻觉。像我这样的女人，总是以一个难题的形式出现在感情里。 发现自己只能爱一个人在一瞬间。而且渐渐变的自私。 爱可以是一瞬间的事情，也可以是一辈子的事情。每个人都可以在不同的时间爱上不同的人。不是谁离开了谁就无法生活，遗忘让我们坚强。 人这样的生物，仔细一看，原来是伤痕累累的。是否被爱，每个人有不同的感受。重寻旧梦的代价往往是我们付不起的。人世间的幸福，总会令人好看一点。因为微笑，我才了解爱。 身上一切，看似不经意，却是我苦心经营，希望你快乐。你说：不如送我一双雨鞋。不如，你送我一场春雨。那么即使我流泪，在雨中，也不容易被你看到。 世事其实都是在它适当的时候降临，只是我们没有适当的心情去迎接它。 因为爱他，所以离开他。我喜欢这句话。有些感情如此直接和残酷。容不下任何迂回曲折的温暖。带着温暖的心情离开，要比苍白的真相要好，纯粹的东西死的太快了。 感情被懂得是一种幸福，等待着被懂得是一种孤独...

愛不需要理由

有一天，一個女孩問一個男孩。。。
女孩：為什么你那么喜歡我。。。？為什么你那么愛我...?
男孩：我說不出那理由，但是我真的很喜歡你。
女孩：你甚至連愛我的理由都說不出來，那你怎么可以說你喜歡我和愛我呢？
男孩：我真的不知道是為什么，但是我可以證明我真的愛你。。。
女孩：證明？不！！！我只是要你說你為什么愛我。為什么我的朋友的男友可以說出來他愛我朋友 的理由，但你就不行呢？
男孩：好。。。你先別生氣啦。嗯，因為你很漂亮，因為你那甜美的聲音，因為你那纏爛的笑容，因為你那溫馨的照顧，因為你那溫柔的呵護，因為你的每一個舉動，所以我喜歡你。
那女孩聽了那男孩的答案后，感覺非常滿意。但是很不幸的，在幾天過后，那女孩遇上了車禍而成為了植物人。之后那男孩寫了一封信，放在那女孩的旁邊。以下是那封信的內容。親愛的，因為你那甜美的聲音之所以我愛你，但你現在能講話嗎？所以我不能再愛你了。因為你的關懷和關心，所以我愛你，但你現在做得到嗎？所以我不能再愛你了。我之所以愛你是因為你的笑容和一舉一動，那你現在可以笑？可以移動嗎？ 是不行嗎，所以我不可以再愛你咯。親愛的，如果愛需要理由的話，現在已經沒有任何理由再讓我愛你了。所以愛需要理由嗎？其實是不需要的！！！！不過現在雖然如此，但是我仍然是愛著你的，親愛的我愛你。。。。。

有時候，在這世界上最好和最美的是看不見，摸不到的，但可以用心來感覺。。。。愛是不需要理由的，所以以后請不要在問你的男友或女友為什么它們那么愛你了，所以各位，好好珍惜和愛你身邊的人吧。。。。。。

心

今天，看到一个朋友的blog,，感触良多。。她写的每一样东西，我都能深刻体会。。每一个字里的痛，都紧紧捉着我的心。。仿佛看见自己的倒影，原来我们都曾经这么傻。。我们都以为只要全心全意地付出，就会得到回报吗？为什么在爱情里认真的人，往往都带着受伤的翅膀离开。。想飞，连飞的勇气都没有。。伤口是那么的痛。。。。我。。。都这么傻吗？以为只要跟了一个人，就死心塌地的一直留在他身边。。不管发生了什么事。。就只要他回头。。其实现实多残忍。。我佩服朋友的勇气，她勇敢地把自己的心情写出来。。我多么想说。。但我却害怕。。。害怕。。。。。。。。。。我。。不知道。。。。我真的都笨吗？男人，我不笨。。只是假装不知道。。我这么辛苦，就只是不想结束。。一直给着机会。我都以为，放纵是爱，原来放纵会使爱。。变本加厉。。曾经的我，多傻。。傻得连自己都想嘲笑自己。。我以为在我身边的这个人，会是陪伴我以后一辈子的人。。现在，一辈子。。是什么？我多么努力的付出，原来我却活在自己的世界里，每天对着你的那个人，躺在你身边的那个人，什么事情都以他为主的那个人。。他。。原来不在乎。。！！我以为两个人在一起久了，激情难免少了，但，这就是以后要携手共渡的日子啊？不是吗？原来，他累了!他想要新鲜，他忘了他给过的承诺。。原来，曾诺都是骗人的！但为什么，我都爱听美丽的谎言！背叛！有多少人可以接受，爱情里的背叛？我不知道，但我却接受了。。不止一次的背叛。。我以为，这么辛苦才在一起的两个人！会应该更珍惜。。但其实不然。。你不知道，第一次的背叛，让我连梦里，都会被吓醒。。原来曾经的第三者，终究会被下一个第三者而取代。。一次次的背叛，让我无力以对，只因你的几句话。。你还玩不够，你。。一定会回头。。就因为相信你会回头。。所以选择委屈自己。。但，没想到你却那么的残忍，你选择了一个在我们身边的朋友。。你真的以为我从来都不知道吗？为什么要用这种方法来伤害我对你的感情。。连结束都还想要欺骗我。。我们都好像彼此的一家人了。。你却让我。。连回家的勇气都没有。。我没办法一个人去面对这突如其来可怕的一切。。从前，我的世界没有一天没有你，突然你彻底地消失了，你没有给我选择的权利，，、、。。就让我一个人去面对未知的世界。。是你要我等！是你要我相信你玩够就会回头的，不是吗？为什么，这一次你却选择不回头？你好可憎！你连分手了，都还说出那种中不负责任的话！你以为你们真的不适合了，我就会乖乖回去吗？到现在。，我都还记得。。你那天，可怕的举动，。。我愚蠢的求你留下，却被你狠狠。。狠狠。。狠狠地甩开。。重重地把我推去墙脚。。我知道。。这一切。。要结束了。。你让我。。连最后的自尊。。都没有。。你把我的尊严，重重地踩在你脚下。。好可怕！好可怕！真得很可怕！试过一个星期，没吃没喝没睡吗？感觉自己不再是自己。。我。。试过。。我像似活在一个没有灵魂的躯壳里。。我不知道什么是累？什么是饿？我害怕一闭上眼睛就会想到那可怕的每一幕。。是多么辛苦的事啊！伤害我的人！你就这么忍心，看着疼爱你的人，伤心吗？伤害我的人，为什么要做这种让人一辈子都留着可怕回忆的举动？转头离开，真得那么容易吗？你也教教我好不好？根本不敢妄想！离开我的那个人，离去时，已经不再是我认识的那个人。。其实，我真的还不习惯。我舍不得，没你在身边！我舍不得，没你陪我聊！我舍不得，没你的关心！我舍不得，没你的疼爱！我更舍不得。。所有的舍不得，全都不会再发生在我身上了！但我会试着去接受，只因，我没得选择！我不会给予祝福，因为，我没那么大方。。但我衷心的希望“你”会幸福。。因为现在的我正享受着没有你的幸福，这样你对我的残忍才值得，不是吗？爬起来。。也许痛，也许困难，但起身后的美好，没尝试。。你永远都不会懂！有些人，是会住在心里最深处！拥有你，让我曾经幸福过，完整过！因此、。。我相信，我们都认真过，努力过！所以，现在的我，想要让你看到，没有你，我也可以过得比以前更好！你也希望看到这样，对吗？？？？

rejection and rejected

今天为甚么你回突然间你跟我说那一翻话？我真的不只道怎样好？！因为你刚刚跟你的女友分手。。。和我跟你是朋友你又是我的前任男友的朋友。。。我真的不懂要怎样答你!!因为我知道被人拒绝 - 心如刀割,拒绝别人 - 痛失良友人往往只看到被拒绝的受害者，却看不到拒绝别人的痛苦。。。其实两者都不好受呀。。。 我们还是做回朋友。。

Preaparing cousin b'day

today is my cousin ah fong 21st b'day...we helpping up...


nice or not this?


seen like so wonderful we do this fruit hor


haven start party yet you already curi makan ar?????

Wedding dance first as a coupl

will you all dance this when wedding dinner?!!maybe i will haha..can enjoy on that day

How are you going to tell the taxi driver.........????

Driver : Nak ke mana cik?

Penumpang : Saya nak ke bandar Sunway. Dekat jer, rumah saya kat Jalan Puki Mak U Lah

Driver : Cik, kita ni orang Melayu. Tak boleh ke gunakan bahasa yang lebih sopan. Penumpang : Nak sopan macam mana lagi bang. Dah memang itu nama jalannya.

Driver : %$#@&*

对你好

对方，不需要很有钱，不必英明神武，是否才华盖世，亦不重要，似不似玉树临风，也无所谓。只要他对你好，事事以你为重，普通人已经够好。
正如大作家所说，条件再好，“不爱我，有什么用？”
物质同客观条件固然非常重要，但到了某一地步，人自然有心灵上需求，一个懂得尊重对方的伴侣，谈吐幽默，具生活情趣，又事事体贴，千金不易。
见对方能力略有不逮，即舍之而去，是相当不智做法，世上的确有际遇这回事，要给他机会，也给自己机会，都会遍地黄金，有志者事竟成。
成功与欢乐如无人分享，只怕寂寞，还有，流泪之际，缺少一边牢靠的肩膀依傍，更凄惶不分。
物质与精神均感满足，才是优质生活，不用吃最好住最好穿最好，走出来最威风最神气。
崇尚功利，是商业社会至盛风气，无可厚非，有一定要有，优哉游哉，对方若志不在此，实在不必勉强。
好伴侣一个鼓励眼神，一个愉快笑容，适当安慰，深切了解，均属生活必需。
对你好最重要。
有人从影数十年，不红，到处诉苦：“我从不迟到，亦不早退，听话，公司叫做什么，便做什么，公司叫做什么，便做什么，至今尚未名成利就，何故？”
大有天无眼之感。
未红，先骄，是致命伤；不红，不骄，却不计分，光是不迟到不早退，绝无可能造就一位明星，单单听话、服从，甚至不足以成为一位优秀公务员。
做任何一个行业，都得在岗位上有所表现，既红、不骄、不迟到、不早退、敬业乐业、有衣食，那才是高手。
职业写作人，不脱稿就算尽了责任？非也非也，此乃最基本入行条件，切勿以为天天交稿就是对编者读者恩重如山、皇恩浩荡。
内容才是最最最重要的一环，能人所不能者，地位才能最稳固，稿德稿质，缺一不可。
伴侣变了心，常听到有一方哭诉：“我做错了什么？”同样的逻辑：不错，是不够的，有人做得更好，略差的便遭淘汰，理所当然。
什么时势了，光是守行为，便想拿功勋？没有这种事。

Love Story of Regret

There was this guy who believed very much in true love and decided to take his time to wait for his right girl to appear. He believed that there would definitely be someone special out there for him, but none came. Every year at Christmas, his ex-girlfriend would return from Vancouver to look him up. He was aware that she still held some hope of re-kindling the past romance with him. He did not wish to mislead her in any way. So he would always get one of his girl friends to pose as his steady whenever she came back. That went on for several years and each year, the guy would get a different girl to pose as his romantic interest. So whenever the ex-girlfriend came to visit him, she would be led into believing that it was all over between her and the guy. The girl took all those rather well, often trying to casually tease him about his different girlfriends, or so, as it seemed! In fact, the girl often wept in secret whenever she saw him with another girl, but she was too proud to admit it. Still, every Christmas, she returned, hoping to re-kindle some form of romance. But each time, she returned to Vancouver feeling disappointed. Finally she decided that she could not play that game any longer. Therefore, she confronted him and professed that after all those years, he was still the only man that she had ever loved. Although the guy knew of her feelings for him, he was still taken back and have never expected her to react that way. He always thought that she would slowly forget about him over time and come to terms that it was all over between them. Although he was touched by her undying love for him and wanted so much to accept her again, he remembered why he rejected her in the first place-she was not the one he wanted. So he hardened his heart and turned her down cruelly. Since then, three years have passed and the girl never return anymore. They never even wrote to each other. The guy went on with his life..... still searching for the one but somehow deep inside him, he missed the girl. On the Christmas of 1995, he went to his friend's party alone. "Hey, how come all alone this year? Where are all your girlfriends? What happened to that Vancouver babe who joins you every Christmas?", asked one of his friend. He felt warm and comforted by his friend's queries about her, still he just surged on. Then, he came upon one of his many girlfriends whom he once requested to pose as his steady. He wanted so much to ignore her ..... not that he was impolite, but because at that moment, he just didn't feel comfortable with those girlfriends anymore. It was almost like he was being judged by them. The girl saw him and shouted across the floor for him. Unable to avoid her, he went up to acknowledge her. "Hi......how are you? Enjoying the party?" the girl asked. "Sure.....yeah!", he replied. She was slightly tipsy..... must be from the whiskey on her hand. She continued, "Why...? Don't you need someone to pose as your girlfriend this year?" Then he answered, "No, there is no need for that anymore......" Before he can continue, he was interrupted, "Oh yes! Must have found a girlfriend! You haven't been searching for one for the past years, right?" The man looked up, as if he has struck gold, his face beamed and looked directly at the drunken girl. He replied, "Yes......you are right! I haven't been looking for anyone for the past years." With that, the man darted across the floor and out the door, leaving the lady in much bewilderment. He finally realized that he has already found his dream girl, and she was.....the Vancouver girl all along! The drunken lady has said something that awoken him. All along he has found his girl. That was why he did not bother to look further when he realized she was not coming back. It was not any specific girl he was seeking! It was perfection that he wanted, and yes.....perfection!! Relationship is something both parties should work on. Realizing that he had let away someone so important in his life, he decided to call her immediately. His whole mind was flooded with fear. He was afraid that she might have found someone new or no longer had the same feelings anymore..... For once, he felt the fear of losing someone. As it was Christmas eve, the line was quite hard to get through, especially an overseas call. He tried again and again, never giving up. Finally, he got through......precisely at 1200 midnight. He confessed his love for her and the girl was moved to tears. It seemed that she never got over him! Even after so long, she was still waiting for him, never giving up. He was so excited to meet her and to begin his new chapter of their lives. He decided to fly to Vancouver to join her. It was the happiest time of their lives! But their happy time was short-lived. Two days before he was supposed to fly to Vancouver, he received a call from her father. She had a head-on car collision with a drunken driver. She passed away after 6 hours in a coma. The guy was devastated, as it was a complete loss. Why did fate played such cruel games with him? He cursed the heaven for taking her away from him, denying even one last look at her! How cruel he cursed! How he damned the Gods...!! How he hated himself....for taking so long to realize his mistake!! That was in 1996.
The moral of this story is :Treasure what you have...Time is too slow for those who wait;Too swift for those who fear;Too long for those who grief;Too short for those who rejoice;But for those who love...Time is Eternity.
For all you out there with someone special in your heart, cherish that person, cherish every moment that you spend together that special someone, for in life, anything can happen anytime. You may painfully regret, only to realise that it is too late.

Worthy Love?

My love is so nearbut he feels so farI fear this love is pointlessBut, something strongsays it's not.Is he really worthfighting for?Is he really worthprayin for?I'm so confusedI don't wanna makethe wrong decisionI love him so muchI don't know what to dohe wont accept me,he loves meI can tellBut, he's too afraid to sayIt's so hardfor the both of us,especially with everything that gets in the way.It's not as easyas I thought it would bewhat should I do?what should I say?There's nothing elsein methat will provemy love for Him!

Timbaland - Apologize lyrics

loveI'm holding on your rope,Got me ten feet off the groundI'm hearin what you say but I just can't make a soundYou tell me that you need meThen you go and cut me down, but waitYou tell me that you're sorryDidn't think I'd turn around, and say...It's too late to apologize, it's too lateI said it's too late to apologize, it's too lateI'd take another chance, take a fallTake a shot for youAnd I need you like a heart needs a beatBut it's nothin new - yeah yeahI loved you with a fire red-Now it's turning blue, and you say..."Sorry" like the angel heaven let me think was youBut I'm afraid...It's too late to apologize, it's too lateI said it's too late to apologize, it's too lateIt's too late to apologize, it's too lateI said it's too late to apologize, it's too lateI said it's too late to apologize, yeahI said it's too late to apologize, yeahI'm holdin on your rope, got me ten feet off the ground...


this is a nice song..apologize...this song give me think about why we alwiz oso doing someting wrong or bad thing to other ppl?why we didnt try to ignore all these thing???